Relationship and Marriage counseling can assist you find out how in harmony you are.
The two most crucial factors that decide how compatible you are as a couple are:
A similar level of psychological health and maturity and a similar ranking of Instinctual Variants.
What are Instinctual Variants?
The 3 Instincts represent the natural energies or drives that are innately part of us as humans. Our personality is highly engaged with and is often dependent on these libidinal, instinctual energies to give it its spark.
Self Preservation Instinct.
People of this Instinctual variant are often with the basic survival needs as they translate into our contemporary society, for example, finance, food, accomodation, health, physical safety and comfort.
Being safe and physically comfortable are essential, and they will tend to bring their supplies with them.
When entering a room, they will tend to notice lighting, uncomfortable chairs, the room temperature, when the coffee break will be, and whether they will like the food provided. They tend also to be the most practical in the sense of taking care of important life necessities.
They are the most introverted of the types.
Sexual/ Intimate Instinct.
People of this type have a intense desire for intensity of experience and affection. The honest riveting gaze is the dead giveaway. When they enter a situation they automatically gravitate toward people they feel magnetized to, as if they are looking for the juice. These people can turn into intimacy addicts, often neglecting pressing matters or even basic maintenance if they are infatuated with something that has captivated them. This gives a wide ranging exploratory philosophy to life, but can also give a lack of focus of one’s own priorities.
Social Instinct.
People of this variation are preoccupied on their interactions with others and with the sense of value and esteem they receive from their participation in collective activities. These include occupation, relationships, hobbies and clubs.
On entering a room, these people would immediately be aware of the relationships and subtle politics between different people and social circles. They are subconsciously attuned on other’s reaction to them, particularly about whether they are being accepted or not.
They need to interact with others to feel safe, acknowledged and energised. They tend to live for interacting with people, but they avoid intimacy.
They are the most extroverted of the types.
Within each person, one of these three Instincts will dominate. In fact the 3 traits can be ranked like the sections of a cake, with the most dominant one at the top. The least powerful one, at the bottom, is termed the blind spot.
These inherent instincts play a pivotal role in our relationships because people of the same variant tend to share values and to understand each other innately, and therefore feel very compatible.
In relationships between 2 different Instinctual types, each will struggle to convert the other.
For further information on discovering whether you and your partner are compatible, contact the Hart Centre Australia. We are Australia’s premier relationship and marriage counselling service with 53 locations Australia wide, and 8 relationship counselling centres in Brisbane, 3 marriage counselling centres in the Gold Coast, and 2 relationship counselling locations on the Sunshine Coast. Phone 1300 830 552 for appointments at all centres.
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